BXBX NOVEL Chapter 307: put yourself first
When a man is rich, his mind is more active, and he is not reconciled to having only one woman in his life, but Song Xi is not worried about these things at all. Even if Zhou Yi becomes prosperous in the future, it is not her loss to abandon her.
Song Xi and Liu Wenya were not familiar with each other, and the two chatted acquainted with each other. During this period, Liu Wenya also mentioned her confusion and helplessness about having a second child. Every month, Wu Zhuhua will invite the midwife to come and live in the village. The midwife will not leave until she gives birth to a child, and the midwife will be paid for by the village.
I have to say that Ping'an Village is really the most humane village in the countryside. Song Xi decided to support Ping'an Village and lead Ping'an Village to start a business and become rich. The most fundamental reason is that Ping'an Village puts people first. It's all from the villagers' point of view.
The mother-in-law is reluctant to pay, so she doesn’t send her daughter-in-law to the hospital to give birth, and doesn’t hire a midwife for her daughter-in-law.
No one cares about the confinement after giving birth. Several experienced aunts in the village can give money or things, and everyone will lend a hand.
After listening to Song Xi's words, Liu Wenya's hanging heart was finally relieved. Someone would take care of her. She was afraid that she would be alone in a foreign land, and Ping'an Village could solve all her problems.
She felt that it was the right decision for her to work hard and integrate into Ping'an Village.
I don't know what Liu Wenya thought of again, she suddenly sighed heavily, and then said in a low voice, "When a **** gets married, she really must marry someone who likes herself. If she marries someone she likes, then It’s really too humble. In fact, Zhou An and I were the two of us. I was the one who first fell in love with Zhou An. Zhou An didn’t like me at all. Later, with the help of my family, I finally managed to marry Zhou An. , I originally thought that the relationship is from the source, as long as we get along well, he will definitely like me too..."
Liu Wenya couldn't help weeping in a low voice, "But Zhou An told me with practical actions that it turns out that someone's heart is like a stone in a latrine, smelly and hard..."
"Comrade Liu, in fact, your statement may not be 100% correct. You said that you want to marry someone who likes you, but who can guarantee how long this love will last? Is it three years, five years, ten years, or a lifetime? "
Song Xi looked at Liu Wenya, she was not opposed, but was analyzing the matter, "Liking is just a feeling, just like we like to eat a certain dish, even if we eat it every day, one day we will get tired of it, I don’t want to eat anymore, I want to change my taste, so how long I like someone is really uncertain.”
"We can't be sure whether others like us, nor can we be sure how long this love can last. The most important thing is ourselves. No matter who we marry, if we are bullied or hurt, then we have to stand up bravely. Come out, protect yourself, if you can’t do it yourself, then seek outside help, parents or friends, if these people can’t help us, then there are work units, some institutions, such as the Public Security Bureau…”
"No matter who we marry, no matter who we like or who likes us, once we enter into a marriage relationship, we should not give up our careers and things we like easily; Do not extravagantly ask for his feedback; one time of infidelity will not be used for life. No matter how reluctant you are, you cannot tolerate him making principled mistakes."
"No matter who we marry, lesbians must love themselves more, treat themselves better, eat what they should eat, drink what they should drink, and rest when they should rest. If you are with this person, there will always be only pain. You will always be the only one who is wronged, so you can choose to separate, the marriage law has been changed long ago, two people who can't get along can be separated, and there is no need to care about the opinions of unexpected people."
Liu Wenya nodded thoughtfully. The last point, she could see that there are many divorced lesbians with children in Ping'an Village, some older and some younger, but no one has ever pointed out to them From the point of view, it can be said that Ping'an Village is a very inclusive place. Of course, the prerequisite is that no mistakes can be made.
Once you make a mistake, you will be punished severely.
"Of course, before getting married, when choosing a marriage partner, you must keep your eyes open and find someone with good character and three views. Even if it has been a long time, you have no feelings, and you are separated. Don't do anything that hurts you, so that you can get together and get together, and you can walk around like friends or relatives in the future, after all, there are children, if you fight to the death, it will be a great harm to the children."
A man with a good character and three views, even if the relationship breaks down, he can't do things to deliberately **** the child, prevent the mother from visiting the child, or refuse to pay child support.
You must know that in modern times, many women have to spend a lot of money to get the custody of their children after divorce. Even if they have custody, the father of the child will not pay a penny for child support.
Divorce requires a child. It will be very hard for the mother to work alone to earn money to raise the child, but the divorce does not want children. The child without a mother to protect is the most pitiful.
It’s not that she hasn’t seen her father becoming a stepdad in modern times, and her father hurting her own children in order to make women happy. She often sees stepmothers abusing her ex-wife’s children on the news, while her father is watching.
There is also a stepmother who is afraid that the ex-wife's children will compete with her children for family property, and thus secretly assassinate.
Some things rarely have the best of both worlds, so I can only rely on myself to keep my eyes open from the source and avoid risks as much as possible.
Listening to Song Xi's words, Liu Wenya felt that "listening to a gentleman's words is better than reading ten years of books". If she had been more rational at the beginning, she would not have ignored Zhou An's shortcomings, and would not have insisted on being with him Now, then I won't be so miserable now.
If the little sisters in my hometown and those who used to like her knew that her life after marriage was like this, I don’t know how they would laugh at her!
When Liu Wenya led Zhou Yinuo to leave, Song Xi closed the courtyard door and pushed the latch. She would not meddle in Liu Wenya's affairs.
Anyway, the village will take good care of her. In short, she and Liu Wenya cannot get along well.
Zhou Yi came out from the kitchen, "Is he gone?"